Expectations kill relationships faster than almost anything else. Not because wanting things from your partner is wrong. But because unrealistic expectations set both of you up for constant disappointment. You expect them to know what you need without saying it. To always make you happy. To never let you down. When mistakes happen, hurt or … Read more
Most relationships don’t end because of one big betrayal. They end because of a thousand small habits that slowly erode the foundation. It doesn’t fall apart overnight. It happens slowly, almost unnoticed—one distracted evening, one unspoken hurt, one time you choose silence over honesty. Then routine takes over, and what once felt alive starts to … Read more
Being single when you don’t want to be is hard. Really hard. Everyone around you seems to be finding love, getting engaged, building families. And you’re still waiting. Praying. Wondering when it’ll be your turn. Questioning if God forgot about you. But here’s what I’ve learned: God doesn’t waste seasons. Especially seasons of singleness. What … Read more
God speaks. Sometimes loudly, but often quietly through whispers we choose to ignore. He warns us about people before they hurt us. Before things fall apart. Before we’re in too deep to walk away easily. But we don’t always listen. Why? Because feelings are loud. Chemistry is intoxicating. And we’re really good at convincing ourselves … Read more
Let’s be honest—asking a guy out can feel intimidating. Your heart beats faster, your mind spins with doubts, and every possible outcome crosses your mind. Yet waiting for him to take the lead might mean nothing ever happens. He could be shy, unsure of your feelings, or just as afraid of rejection as you are. … Read more
Falling in love is easy. Staying in love while staying faithful to God? That’s the real challenge. Because here’s what nobody tells you: love can become an idol without you even realizing it. Some days, faith guides every choice; other days, compromise takes over to keep the relationship smooth. Missing church, ignoring convictions, bending values—suddenly … Read more
Finding a kind man is one thing. Discovering a godly man who guides with love is something else entirely. Attending church doesn’t automatically make a man godly. Quoting scripture doesn’t ensure it’s lived. Claiming leadership doesn’t guarantee understanding of biblical guidance. True leadership isn’t control or dominance. It’s not deciding while others follow blindly. Biblical … Read more
Not every connection that feels powerful is divinely guided. Attraction can be magnetic, emotions can run deep, and love can seem undeniable—yet not every bond is meant to be blessed. It’s easy to mistake excitement for alignment, intensity for intention, or longing for divine purpose.In that process, the heart attaches to something temporary, something that … Read more
Nothing explosive happens. No big fight or clear reason to walk away. Yet something has shifted. Looking at the partner brings a sense of distance, as if two lives are running side by side under the same roof. Love and shared history remain, but the bond feels like it’s slipping. The exact beginning is uncertain. … Read more
After heartbreak the thought of dating again feels impossible then frightening then slowly, almost surprisingly, exciting. Real readiness comes from growth, not from trying to escape loneliness. Rushing forward risks repeating old patterns and inviting familiar pain. Friends may encourage quick rebounds, yet haste only disrupts what’s still finding balance. Focus turns inward, centering on … Read more